
Wednesday was a busy day for me. I woke up at 7 and my damn dog Owen had eaten 3 loafs of my mom’s bread and crapped on the floor. I didn’t start the day well, to say the least. I brought Yvette and Lola some burritos. Yvette wasn’t so sure she could really eat yet. She was till a little flimsy from the bug she’s been kicking. We set out to get our marriage license and the damn clerks office was already closed for the holiday. They told us on the phone they would be open until 2. Rude.
We ran some errands and knocked out a few more things we needed for the wedding. I could tell that Yvette was overdoing it by the time we were finished. I brought her home and carried in the groceries. I needed to go meal prep for Thanksgiving and finish putting up my outdoor Christmas decorations. . I had a pea salad to make the night before. Thawed the frozen peas, chopped up red onion and sharp cheddar cheese and grilled some bacon. The sauce was a mixture of sour cream, mayo, black pepper, brown sugar and apple cider vinegar. Damn. I was excited about the addition to the spread. I like to introduce new sides. It keeps the meal fresh. This year I’m bring two new dishes. Hope they are both well received.
After the meal was prepped I met up with my mother and brother for some food and drinks. It’s always a good to see my brother. I went back to my mother’s and hung out for a little while before going home to my slumber.

Thanks giving I woke up early and went to hang out with the kids and Yvette. She had a ham going for the lunch festivities with her family. I always look forward to being with them, which is kind of the opposite of my last situation. Today’s turkey day starts at her brothers. Thanks giving us such chore for me these days with the diabetes. We had our lunch and my blood sky rocketed, as it does. It’s once a year so I never can really accurately prepare for how much insulin I’ll need. It doesn’t matter. Sure, it doesn’t feel great to have sugar swings like that but it’s part of my life and I’ll be damned if it will infringe upon my fun.


2 1/2 hours later I left to go make my next side for the next meal that was to be at 6:30. I was roasted carrots wrapped in bacon and glazed with maple syrup and sriracha sauce. This was another new idea I had been wanted to try ever since my friend Paul started talking about making this months ago. It took a little over an hour to prepare and cook, which gave me more time to digest lunch. Hard to fit all this food. Once it was done I went back out to my mother’s. Yvette, the kids and the sweet baby came along and we all had a Thanksgiving dinner. Somehow we all survived eating so much. We watched some football and had a good ole time.



Friday I slept in and made a little breakfast. I had some eBay sales I needed to get out. Lucky my mother has a printer for the packing labels. I ran into a guy working the post office that I had not seen since pre-covid. He use to work at the downtown location and I guess moved to the south side office. It was nice seeing him. He was always trying to get me to leave the college and come work for the USPS. Anyhow, he had 27 days left before retirement. Lucky man. He was going to be moving out of state to be near his grandchildren.

After leaving the post office I made a quick run to get Yvette a Christmas present. I had an idea and I couldn’t pass up the Black Friday sale. I hated having to go on Black Friday but goodness lord if it didn’t save me a good penny.
Yvette, my mother and brother and I all went to see Wicked. We couldn’t all sit together but oh well. The movie surprised me. I fully went into it expecting to hate it. Almost 3 hours of a musical. Nope. I was taken by the acting and the story. I actually liked is e of the musical numbers. I have to say I had a jolly good time. It was made better by the company of Yvette. I was actually looking forward to the second half and even asked when it was coming out. Next November, it seems.

After the movie Yvette and I went to dinner at Chilis and split an appetizer. We talked wedding and the movie and just stuff. It was a nice little date night after a holiday. Those are some of the best. When you get to spend some time with just each other. Love this woman and can’t wait to be able to call her my wife.

Saturday was all about putting away fall decor and putting up Christmas, sans tree. It’s always a little bittersweet switching the home decor. I love fall. I keep the decorations up for 3 months kicking off September 1st. As much as I do love Christmas, the decorations are only up for a month. I just don’t get as much out of them. I have a modest amount compared to the abundance of fall decor. Anyways, I put up everything but the tree.

After putting up Christmas I ran some errands around town. Now that Black Friday was behind us the stores were much less crazy. I got some paint to start the trim and doors in Teegan’s room. I also found some really good Christmas candles on sale 2 for the price of one. I needed some holiday scents. After running around I made a brief stop by the store and went out to my moms to assemble the drink cart for the wedding cocktail hour. that was fun and I think should be practical for what we need it for.
Once home i put together two Christmas tree we are using for the wedding. I needed to make sure that they would light up. What a bummer that would be if they didn’t. Satisfied with that I made a little Mongolian beef stir-fry over some rice. It was a cozy evening and I was tired from all the holiday excitement.

Gremlins. My first Christmas/horror film of the season. I mean, what a classic to start the season with. I’ve seen this film as long as I can remember. My parents had little restraint on what I could watch as a kid and besides, this is a good wholesome film. It kind of made me a little sad. I sure miss my dad this time of year.

Sunday Sunday. The holiday week is wrapping up. I slept in to 8:30 and made a little breakfast for myself. I had some potatoes and some chorizo. What to make. Oh, corn tortillas. Let’s make some chorizo con papas. Such a fantastic simple meal. I had thought about adding eggs but in the end figured they might deduct some from the flavor. Keeping things simple can be the best policy.

Mostly I just relaxed, played Zelda and had my coffee. it was cold outside. I made a major discovery within the game. I am well on my path to the end and that really worries me. What can I do to prolong this great experience longer? I have only a few side quest left, sadly. What a great game and I will be sad.

Once the coffee kicked in I started cleaning like crazy. My floors. Dusting areas I have probably never dusted. That’s really rather gross, come to think about it. I found out the kids wanted to put up tree decorations so I climbed into the attic and got down the tree. I later decided to get down a second tree. Now I had 3 trees in my living area. Can’t really have too many, can you?

After that I went to Yvette’s once I realized the time. I was supposed to have lunch at her place. I had to reheat my meal. It was still good. I loaded up some of her Christmas stuff and headed to the store and then to my mother’s to grab the left over turkey so we could use it that night for dinner.
Next up was our final meeting with the Pastor Bill for the wedding. Our final couples counseling. Very exciting. We had a good and very informative session and a mini wedding rehearsals. He helped us with some wedding details we hadn’t even thought of yet and it’s was only a week away. Haha. He is a good friend. I trust a man that has officiated over 300+ weddings. Once that was done we went back to the house and made dinner. The kids put up ornaments and we had a nice dinner and watched a great movie.

The Christmas Chronicles. This new classic came out in 2018 and stars on of my favorite actors ever in what just might be the best Santa Claus ever, Kurt Russell. It’s has that good Christmas spirit that is needed. Funny, sweet and hits the spot. I love it. With the tree lit up and Christmas all around me with the family I was feeling a little warm inside.

Happy Thanksgiving Holiday!!
























































































































































































